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    With the social atmosphere becomes opener, many people think that it is not a big deal to live together with their lovers. Cohabitation is a fleeting way to know a person. Because you spend most of time getting along with the same person, the relationship leaps and bounds. However, there are two sides of cohabitation. Before reaching a stable relationship, couples who live together are easily to have fights and break up at the end. Because they don't understand each other deeply, there must be many things which need communicating and coordinating. And these trivia consumes the imagination of romance which will be replaced by annoyance. If they don't reach an agreement, it will lead to a sad ending. 
     There are many reasons why cohabitation before marriage is improper:
     1. Many people are not mature enough to take the responsibility of the consequences of cohabitation
     2. No more enthusiasm and romance
     3. Face the dilemma when one wants to get married while the other doesn't
     4. There is no commitment lack of identity
     -from ''living together for love'', Yi- Xin Huang, published by Gao-Lin International AG

    What's more, I think couples living together are easily getting bored in a relationship. If cohabiting, couples will have much more time to get along with. At first, couples might be content with this kind of life style. They are like gums sticking all day long. They enjoy their own world without hanging out with their friends. But when time passes, their life will become exhausted. Facing the same person all the time makes the freshness and passion of love vanish rapidly. Eventually, they will find out that what remains in their world is only themselves. Living together means that you have to fit in each other's living habits. You and your mate come from different family, there must be many things which need to be adjusted and accommodated. You will gradually discover your mate's bad habits which make you intolerable. Not knowing how to dissolve the dilemma, you will destroy your relationship.

    Nowadays, more and more people live with lovers before marriage. Many couples have been cohabited for a long time and don't get married. Some couples even break up ultimately after cohabiting many years. Many people think marriage is a bound; while cohabitation is still free. They can enjoy the happiness and don't need to be limited. They are satisfied with current situation and have no desire to get married. The relationship will be stopped and make no progress. In our society, we have to take the responsibility of procreation. When people reach the marriageable age, they are forced to get married. If your mate just wants to cohabit and have no preparation for marriage, the discord will cause conflicts and even put the relationship to an end.  

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQA_8Dh9jYY

     According to the video, many parents think it is inappropriate to cohabit before marriage. And the children who have the experience of cohabitation are afraid to tell their parents the fact that they live with their boyfriends or girlfriends. In their opinion, parents will forbid them from living together certainly. And they think it is an embarrassing scandal to let other people know. How will others think about a girl who lives with her boyfriend? There must be lots of rumors and gossip. This kind of girls' value might be lower. And it is harmful for a girl's chastity. Many people live with their lovers when they are in college. It seems common to live with whom we love and spend most of time with them. Nevertheless, collage students are not mature enough. They just turn into adults and learn to take responsibility. Both male and female are impulsive at this stage, it is possible that they do something regretful.