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    Cohabitation Before Marriage
   And I disapprove it.
   There are many reasons why cohabitation before marriage is improper:
     1. Many people are not mature enough to take the responsibility of the consequences of cohabitation. Many people are too young and impulsive. It's possible that they do something regretful. And they don't know how to resolve it.
     2. No more enthusiasm and romance. Living together means you have to face the same person all the time. At first, you might be happy. Because you can see your lover all day long. But soon, you will be accustomed to the life style and be bored. And you have no time to get along with your friends. Because you get along with him. And you want to spend a lot of time with him. And it's easily to find your mate's bad habits if living together. If you two don't communicate well, and tolerate each other's bad habit, you two will break up soon.
     3. Face the dilemma when one wants to get married; while the other doesn't. Many people think marriage is a bound; while cohabitation is still free. They can enjoy the happiness and don't need to be limited. But in our society, we have to procreation. We are forced to get married and have babies. So if you two don't have the same idea on whether to get married, it will lead to a sad ending.
     4. There is no commitment and lack of identity. Many couples live together for a long time, but break up at the end. You have no assurance in this relationship. And you get nothing in the end. Not like marriage, if you divorce, you can get money.
     5.Many parents disapprove their children cohabit before marriage. Many children who cohabit with their mate are afraid to tell their parents the truth that they cohabit with their mates. They think it's an embarrassing scandal.